I sometimes feel like a thorn in the side, when commenting on blog posts of friends. I want to go deeper into what is being said, and doing so, I rearrange my own insights – that is of course only true when there are replies from the author so I can learn from this person.
Ideally, this process is felt as a mutual benefit. Although sometimes it feels like it is only one way traffic. I apologize if I have made anyone uncomfortable with any comment.
This shouldn’t stop me from commenting, since it would reduce the mutual benefits in those conversations that really go well, and that otherwise I would have missed by being too self restrictive.
Please feel free to do the same on this blog.